The Bullying Response Quick Check can help you notice what may be happening—whether your child is being targeted, reacting after being hurt, using power or exclusion, or witnessing bullying.

But once you recognize the pattern, the next question is usually:

“What do I actually do about it?”

What to Do When Bullying Happens gives you a clear, practical plan for what comes next—without panic, shame, or guesswork.

Inside the Bullying Toolkit:

• The First 24 Hours — what to do first when something happens
• How to tell conflict, mean behavior, bullying, and a safety threat apart
• What to do when your child is the target
• What to do when your child is causing harm
• How to respond when your child is both being hurt and hurting others
• How to help a child who witnesses bullying become a safe upstander
• When and how to work with the school
• How to help your child repair, recover, and move forward
• The separate 5-Minute Confidence Reset to help your child feel steady and capable again